The 3 Things Secretly Killing Your Writing Time (and how to take it back)

If you’ve been staring at the same blinking cursor for days, wondering where your time (and your motivation) went… you’re not alone.

As a book coach for busy women (especially moms), I hear this all the time: “I want to write my book, but I just don’t have the time!” But here’s the truth—time isn’t always the problem. The real culprits are often sneaky little habits stealing your attention without you even realizing it.

Let’s talk about the 3 things secretly killing your writing time—and how to take your power back.

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1. The Trap of the Overloaded To-Do List

We wear busyness like a badge of honor. But if your to-do list reads more like a grocery receipt, there’s a good chance your book keeps getting bumped to the bottom.

The Fix: Instead of adding your book to a list of 87 tasks, treat it like a non-negotiable appointment. Block it out in your calendar—even 30 minutes a day counts. And here’s a mindset shift: your book is not “extra.” It’s a gift to your future self, your family, and maybe even the world.


2. Micro-Distractions That Multiply

You open your laptop to write… but then remember to check an email. Or refill your coffee. Or peek at Instagram “for just a sec.”

These micro-distractions stack up. And before you know it, your writing window is gone.

The Fix: Try “temptation bundling.” Pair writing with something enjoyable—like a cozy drink or your favorite playlist—and nothing else. Shut off notifications, use a timer, and treat those 25-30 minutes like sacred focus time.


3. The Myth of “Needing More Time”

Let me say this gently: if you’re waiting for life to slow down before you write your book… you’ll never write your book.

The Fix: Use the life you have now. You don’t need three free hours or a secluded writing retreat. You need 30-45 minutes of focused energy and a system that helps you stay on track.

That’s exactly why I created the 30 Day Author program. It’s a self-paced writing system for real people with real responsibilities. You’ll learn how to structure your draft, stay accountable, and finally finish that book—without burning out.


Final Thoughts

Writing a book doesn’t require a completely cleared calendar. It requires clarity, intention, and small, consistent actions. The good news? You’ve already taken the first step by reading this post.

Now take the next step: Let me walk you through the exact system that’s helped hundreds of women write their books in 30 days or less.

👉 Join 30 Day Author today and let’s finish your book—together.

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